I'm Katia Dahlia. A creative at heart.
Feminine Modern Woman.
Despise the term “girl boss” can’t relate. Yes I am independent, life has proven to me you can’t rely on others. Truthfully, I wouldn’t want to anyway I have heard and seen way too many ghastly stories to ever want too. I completely agree the modern dating scene is a complete joke, I will definitely be writing about that. But also believe in romance and living a beautiful soft life.
I grew up in a chaotic home raised by my not so nice single mother. I saw her struggle and knew I did not want that for me. All my older sisters married young, had kids, and ended up divorced by twenty-five. I was in a serious relationship most of my early twenties and was led nowhere by him.
So instead I solely focused on me for the years that followed. Watered by own pot. Healed all my wounds. Forgot about men for three years and set firm boundaries with my overbearing family.
And have now become a women I am very proud of.
Create. Create. Create.
"Ugh another blog?"
I can’t describe this urge but 2025 told me to write. Just write.
So I listened. After working two physically excruciating restaurant jobs, booking photography gigs on the side, and not having enough “me” time. I had saved enough money and was finally living on my own and began writing. Eventually I will be publishing what I wrote- very deep personal life stories, my spiritual awakening, and my karmic/twin flame journey.
I am no professional writer, haven’t written anything since a screenplay in college. But again “that” urge was loud and clear. I can’t explain it. And oh my did it all just want to come out, naturally.
my JOURNEY
2023
A dry pot
I had not been attended too in a very long time but not realizing while it was happening, I was dry, brittle, and lonely. “How?” I technically had it going for me. But without getting too much into the details. Lying to ourselves keeps us safe from uncomfortable conversations so we choose silence at the time. Forcing us to think that it is “okay.”
2024/5
Attending to my garden
For the first time in my life, I finally came first. Focusing on all my houses- finance, spiritual, self-love etc. Also working jobs that yes paid great, allowed me to finally start traveling, reach goals but did not love. I was able to focus on what I actually wanted to be doing in life and refine my creative pursuits. Definitely a pivotal time in my life in laying the foundation to what is ahead in my journey.
2026
She is blooming
Been focusing on the details and making sure I show up authentically as myself in everything I pursue. This year my main focus is creating-turning every adventure into a meaningful narrative that inspires and connects people. Looking forward to the last blog post of 2026 and all the magic it will contain.
... to be continued
What my current life looks like
A dry Riesling! Oh my I've been missing out.
Concerts! Not new but always more concerts.
Putting down the self help and psychology books. Time to live life!
Getting back to dating! Lets see how this goes.
Spending more time in the green side of nature.
Trying to rebuild a relationship with my estranged mother.
I never chose the rose because it was soft. Men mistake it for a symbol of fragility... they forget the thorns"
— Unknown